WOMAN: HOW TO DEARMOUR YOUR VAGINA FOR PAIN FREE SEX & G-SPOT, SQUIRTING, A-SPOT, AND CERVICAL ORGASMS

“Why Dearmour?” INTRODUCTION

In the World Wide Web, there seems to be a lot of confusion and conflicting information regarding how to excite feminine sexual pleasure, orgasmic potential and anatomy.  There are many questions regarding, “How to remove vaginal tightness, pain, discomfort and numbness?”  There are many more questions asking, “How to have and maintain a pleasure-filled pussy?”; “How to regain sensation and bliss in your body, relationship and sex life?”; “How to strengthen the pelvis and genital area of the body?”; “How to have an orgasm: clitoral, anal, squirting, cervical, womb, full body, oral, and heart orgasms?”; “How to create and harness one’s own sexual energy?”; and “How to allow, take, receive, give, pass on, conduct, jump-start, or ground the sexual energy of another person?”

Orgasmic pleasure and emotional physical pain exist on a spiraling stair case.  Be it spiraling up and into pleasure or spiral down and into pain, challenges, as well as rewards, fears and pain, as well as love and orgasmic bliss, come in cycles.  Up the staircase, former challenges become smaller and resolve themselves more quickly and the rewards get more luxurious.  Down the staircase, problems become bigger and take longer to process, while the benefits becomes more fleeting and less significant.  Where going up the stairs may at first seem to be a harder more straining exercise, in the long run it yields all the benefits and many more than what one may first feel when giving up and turning back down the stairwell.

Did you know that with some simple touch, breathing and voicing practice you can release pain from your vagina, as well as years of pent up stress, anxieties, fears and traumas?  Or that with a simple stone egg you can train, strengthen and boost your orgasmic potential to supercharge your vagina with both the ability to receive and give legendary, bed shattering, earth shaking pleasure?

This is written with the hope of shedding some light on the questions, challenges, practices and hidden treasures women encounter along the path up their staircase towards ecstatic, self-other discovery and oneness.  This is for all women who want to live fully orgasmic lives, free from emotional pain.  It is also for those of us who love women, honor them, and wish to empower them: body, mind and spirit.

 

“The Outer Chamber” PART 1

  1. Dearmouring the Vaginal Entrance for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (Hymen Fossa Vestibular & Frenulum Pudendum vaginal entrance)With your finger, ever so lightly make contact to your yoni’s frenulum pudendum* and hold.
  1. The sensation here can be very localized to your vagina and ranges from pain, to numbness, and releases into pleasure. Pain is often described as needles, burning, itching, acid or annoyance. Pleasure is often described as buzzing, pulsing, swelling and horniness.  The finger giving the dearmouring to your pussy may feel releases of heat, weak to strong pulses, electricity, buzzing or burning coming from the vagina.
  1. Continue to hold until the sensation in your vagina releases and melts from pain into pleasure. For the finger this can feel similar to touching cold butter as it warms to room temperature, giving way to the slightest contact.
    (read how does a dearmoured pussy feel like for a man)

 

 

Dearmouring the Vaginal Entrance for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (Fossa Vestibular vaginal entrance sagittal plane)

  1. Gently dip your finger into the depth of the fossa (ie. Latin for trench or ditch) just before reaching the remainder of your yoni’s hymen. Hold as with the frenulum until your vagina’s inner ridge begins to melt.
  1. Continue within the fossa and proceed 360⁰ around the vestibulum (ie. Latin for the small room between the interior of the house and the street). With the pad of the finger, not the nail, gently nudge into the interior ridge of the fossa until it melts into the vaginal canal.
  1. The range of sensation from pain, to numbness, and release into pleasure is similar to the frenulum, except wetter. As the Bartholin Glands are activated they begin to saturate and flood the outer chamber as the door to your vagina’s inner chamber melts off of its hinges.

 

*I like to called it the Roursgaard RidgeFollow the link and click on her name to checkout her workshops!

“The Inner Chamber” – PART 2

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad & G-Spot sagittal plane)Lightly slide your finger in and along the anterior (upper) wall of the vagina. Your finger will come to a mound of flesh, here called the G-Pad to distinguish it from the G-Spot. The G-Pad like any mound has a slope on the front, as well as steeper slopes along the sides and back.  By hooking your finger up and into the depth of the back slope, you will find the G-Spot.  Maintaining contact with the G-Spot and gently pull out and towards the entrance so as to coax the entire G-pad out.
  1. The sensation here generally ranges from 1)numbness on the pad and pain in the Gspot to 2) rip roaring pleasure on the Gpad coupled with the release of shame and guilt in the Gspot as you begin to venture Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad transverse plane)with confidence into your true pleasure potential unburdened from emotional pain. Pain is often felt on the side of the GPad more sharply than the outer chamber and particularly like stabbing and needing to pee in the Gspot. The finger giving the dearmouring typically feels feel releases of heat, strong pulses, electricity, and an overall fluffy swell snuggly squeezing the finger as the vagina releases into pleasure.

 

 

 

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad G-Spot & Bartholin Gland sagittal plane)To counter any pain felt on the anterior (upper) wall of the vagina when pressing into the G-Pad & Spot, slowly but firmly pivot your fingers down into the posterior (lower) vaginal wall and slowly stretch it backwards towards the entrance and into the Bartholin Glands.
  1. The sensation as you press back into the posterior wall can range from a sharp, almost tearing pain at the frenulum pedendum (where the vaginal lips meet just above the anus and perineum) to a sensation of deep grounding and relaxation, which is most normally accompanied by sighs, deep moans and eyes rolling back into the head.

Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad & Lateral Vaginal Walls transverse plane)

 

  1. Remember to “Press & Release” all points of soreness and pain along the side wall of the vagina. During the “Press & Release” minimize friction and fast movements along the walls.  If you have any sharp, shooting pains of electricity running down your leg, similar to if you bump the funny bone at the arms elbow, then this is a nerve and does not need to be pressed into.

 

 

 

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad G-Spot & Bartholin Gland sagittal plane)Begin to alternate pressure back and forth between the Bartholin Gland using the back side of the finger and the into the deepest point of the G-Spot using the padded side (not fingernail) of the finger.
  1. Place the other hand on your heart.
  1. Fill your lungs with air, arch your back, stretch your stomach and breath deep into your pussy (READ BREATHWORK ARTICLE).
  1. Voice without restraining whatever pain, shame, guilt, aggression, lust, or pleasure you feel.

 

Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (Twerking for Hip Movement sagittal plane)

 

  1. Rock your hips backwards into the finger pressing into your G-Spot. Relax your hips forward as you exhale (READ MOVEMENT ARTICLE).

 

  1. Slowly, but gradually, increase the depth and rate by which you alternatively press into the G-spot and posterior wall of the vagina.

 

 

Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad & G-Spot Squirting Technique sagittal plane)

  1. To counter any pain felt on the anterior (upper) wall of the vagina when pressing into the G-Pad & Spot, slowly but firmly pivot your fingers down into the posterior (lower) vaginal wall and slowly stretch it backwards towards the entrance and into the Bartholin Glands.
  1. As the rate of alternation increases to 3-5 up/down motions the sharpness will begin to subside as the sensation of pleasure and a need to pee will increase. Go pee. Drink a 1/2 liter of water.

 

 

Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (Vestibular Bulbs and Vaginal Canal transverse plane)

 

  1. Return and continue. Press firmly down and out, into the Bartholin glands and anterior wall of the vagina. The vestibular bulbs, like lungs, are expanded to maximum capacity as they surge full of blood, engorge your clit, and expand your entire vulva outwards as liquid waves of pleasure begin to squirt from your pussy.
  1. The pussy fluffs making her lips pout. Unlike a face, a pouty pussy is a happy pussy! (Read “The Happy Pussy”)

 

 

“Squirting – Physical Build Up & Emotional Release” PART 3a

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad G-Spot Cervix Exocervix sagittal plane)Much more important than the theatrics of squirting is the physiological and psychological effects of female ejaculation. When first dearmouring the G-pad, most women will begin to ooze a creamy sometimes grainy secretion. Typically, the milkier and grainer the secretion is then the more build-up, pressure and pain will be experienced just before release.  Fortunately, even in extremes cases of sharp pain in the G-spot and around the G-pad, this pain almost immediately subsides with the 1st ejaculation and can be drastically reduced by maintaining levels of hydration and regular dearmouring.

 

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad & G-Spot Squirting Technique sagittal plane)In addition to the physical build-up, pressure and pain experienced, these physical sensations are often complemented by the emotional experience of disgust, resistance, fear, stress, guilt, distrust, anger, shame, sadness or anxiety.  Eye contact, a hand on the heart, breathing deeply into the vagina and feet, and voicing, not so much with words, but with tonal sounds what you are feeling will create the most natural and powerful emotional release.***
  1. Go pee after the first psychosomatic release and then drink another 1/2 liter of warm herbal tea or water. The experience of peeing will also often feel like a psychosomatic release. The words most commonly used are “light” and “cleansing”.

 

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (Twerking for Hip Movement sagittal plane)Scan for any points of tension or rawness from friction. Release them if present.  Stop if skin feels raw.  Return to squirting if there is still itchiness, burning or more emotions to release, be they sad, joy, or simply the desire to celebrate one’s feminine abundance.  Notice that with each release the ejaculate becomes less grainy, less milky and more clear; the sensation less sharp and painful; the experience less anxious, angry, and guilt-ridden.  Continue squirting and drink fluids until the ejaculate is completely clear.    All negativity, like markings in the sand,  are washed away by the powerful waves of new imprints.  The sharpness around the G-Pad and spot should nearly disappear and transform into gradually more and more intense sensations of pleasure and energetic pulsing.   Ecstatic release, orgasmic potency, laughter, joy, soaring levels of confidence, a soft and juicy pussy, and a calm yet excitable state of absolute sexiness resides in the body and exudes from your voice, stance, and way of interacting.  Some, during the first three days, feel a bit vulnerable and lethargic if the negative emotional release was large.  After all, ecstatic states and conducting orgasmic energy can be physically demanding as the mind (body & brain) undergoes a systematic transformation in body language, breath, voice, brain activity, pulse, neurochemical and hormone production, interaction style and focus.  On the other hand you may just go straight into maintained, heightened states of easily accessible arousal, as well as bubbling pleasure and horniness.

 

“Squirting – Physical Build Up & Emotional Transformation” PART 3b

  1. Dearmouring the Vagina's G-Spot for Pain Removal and Better Orgasms (G-Pad G-Spot A-Spot Cervix Exocervix Transformation sagittal plane)In addition to the physical build up and emotional release, the pussy literally transforms into an empowered state and anatomically realigns itself for deep orgasmic pleasure from intercourse.
  1. The G-Pad and behind the cervix become engorged, tilting the exocervix toward the entrance.  The entire cervix and G-pad reach forward so that the size cock of cock does not matter and could easily reach the cervix, aligning its tip with the entrance to the ecstatic, dialating exocervix.
  1. Reaching behind the cervix into your vagina’s posterior wall, fill up your lungs, breath deep in your pussy, so that she reaches out towards the entrance and becomes shallow, and ever so lightly, lovingly and gently begin to pull the cervix forward. Hold all points that are sore as you work around the cervical base. Spiraling towards the exocervix, dearmour the entire cervical shaft. Using a feather touch to begin, make laps with the pads of your finger around the exocervix.  Notice how the entire cervix begins to fluff and become soft.  Gently press the pad of your finger directly into the exocervix and continue to deeply breath into your pussy and voice your lower chakrah tone (SEE Breathwork).  Your cervix will begin to dialate as if to eat your finger.  Breath into your cervix  so that she reaches out like a mouth opening and then closing as you relax through your breath out.
  1. Relax and breath deeply as you hook with the finger pad back and into your inflated pussy’s F-spot with same motion and pull forward as you use with the G-spot. When you now press into the F-spot like with the G-spot your, squirt as opposed to coming in blasts you, streams more like a river.
  1. Rock your hips backwards into your finger stimulating the F-spot. Rolling your chest out, breath into your pussy filling her up with oxygen, love and blood.   The cervix will reach down and push against the finger.  Relaxing your hips, rock them forwards as your fingers lovingly brush backwards and tenderly press into the posterior wall of the vagina.
  1. Pressing back and into the posterior wall of your vagina, gently brush the cervix as you pass by. Ever so gradually and lovingly rock your fingers backwards and into the posterior wall behind the base of the cervix, down and then gently towards the entrance, as with the G-spot, but deeper.
  1. Center the other hand on the heart, and with the center of the palm pulse in love.

***The space holder, facilitator and/or giver should not taint the receivers experience with words but instead simply facilitate the release.  Where words may help, these seem to be foundational, favorable, and sufficient: observation, silence, and the eminence of LOVE…the latter being supreme.

Coming soon Part 4 “The Altar Room”

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